Cheers to a new year Reader!
December 31 has a strange feel to it.
It is not quite an ending, and it is not really a beginning either. It sits in between. Close enough to the past to still feel it, close enough to the future to sense the pull.
Most years, we try to fill that space with noise. Resolutions. Declarations. Big plans meant to prove that we are ready to move on.
This year, I’ve been thinking about something quieter...
Direction.
Not goals. Not promises. Not pressure. Just direction.
Over the last few weeks, we slowed down. We looked back without judging. We noticed what followed us forward. We acknowledged that some things stayed longer than they needed to. None of that work was about fixing anything. It was about clarity.
And clarity changes how the future feels.
Direction is different from goals because it does not demand certainty. It does not require you to predict how things will unfold or prove that you are motivated enough. Direction simply asks where you intend to aim your attention and energy, knowing that adjustments will happen along the way.
In youth sports, and honestly in life, we often confuse intensity with intention. We push harder when what we really need is alignment. We add more when what we need is focus. Direction brings things back into proportion.
You can move forward without having everything figured out.
You can care deeply without carrying unnecessary weight.
You can hold high standards without attaching expectations to every outcome.
That combination matters.
Direction shows up in small choices more than big announcements. How you speak to yourself after mistakes. What you emphasize when things get hard. What you return to when the noise gets loud.
Those are not resolutions. They are anchors.
As this year closes, you do not need to reinvent yourself. You do not need to prove that you learned enough or changed enough. You only need to decide what deserves your attention moving forward, and what does not.
The rest will reveal itself over time.
So tonight, or sometime soon, let the year end without forcing a summary. Let the next one begin without demands.
Choose direction.
That is enough.