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I was scrolling through the streaming apps the other night, doing that classic ritual where you pretend you are choosing something new but end up circling the same five movies you have watched a hundred times. This time, though, Back to the Future popped up, and I could not resist. There is something comforting about a story that makes absolutely no sense, yet still feels like it understands you. A teenager in a time traveling car powered by plutonium is ridiculous, but it is the kind of ridiculous that lets your brain relax for a minute.

Somewhere between Doc Brown shouting about 1.21 gigawatts and Marty trying to convince him that he really is from the future, I paused the movie. What stood out was not the action. It was the idea that the only way to move ahead was to look back. Marty had to understand what already happened if he wanted to influence what came next.

And it got me thinking...

Youth sports moves so fast that we rarely stop long enough to take inventory of the year we just lived. We bounce from event to event, season to season, hoping the next chapter magically improves because the calendar flipped. We celebrate the wins, shrug off the losses, and stuff everything else into the mental junk drawer. But if we never look back, we never understand what actually shaped the year. We never see the patterns. We never notice the small things that mattered. We never make the adjustments that could change everything.

Reflection gives us that chance. Not the dramatic, sweeping kind that comes with inspirational music. The simple kind. The quiet kind. The kind that shows up only when you give it space. It helps you see the small habits that made a difference, the emotional tone you carried into practices, the moments where kids felt supported, and the moments where you may have unintentionally added pressure. These are the details that never make the highlight reel, but they are the ones that shape the experience.

Reflection is the conversation we often avoid because it forces us to be honest. Not harsh. Just honest. What worked. What did not. What drained your energy. What made you better. What your athletes needed more of. What your team needed less of. When you understand those things, you stop repeating seasons by accident and start designing them on purpose.

That is the real value. Not perfection. Direction. Reflection helps you carry the right pieces forward and leave the heavy stuff where it belongs. It starts to clarify what you want next season to look like, and more importantly, what you refuse to repeat. It gives you a chance to adjust your environment before another whirlwind year begins.

Right before I unpaused the movie, I thought about how Marty was never trying to live in the past. He was studying it so he could change the future. He wanted to understand the timeline, not relive it.

That is all we need to do in youth sports. We do not need a time machine. We do not need a flux capacitor. We only need the willingness to press rewind long enough to understand the story we just lived.

So this week, grab your metaphorical camcorder. Review your year. Look for the moments worth carrying into the future and the ones that deserve a graceful exit. Your next season will not happen by chance. It will happen because you decided to learn from the one you just finished.

See you next week. And remember, #DontSuck, and #OneDayOne, every day is either one day or day one. The choice is yours.

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